Re: Help, anyone? Color guard question..
Greetings, Liz! Welcome aboard.
The civilian Flag Code doesn't say anything one way or the other about this, so each organization is free to make its own rules. However, most color guards that I've observed tend to follow military regulations. Both Army and Marine Corps regulations are very clear that the senior member of the color guard carries the national flag and gives the commands and orders for the movements of the guard. The references for this are MCO P5060 Para 7004 for the Marines, and FM 3-21.5 para 15-4 for the Army.
So -- no, I don't think that you are being stubborn. You are correct that that's the way it's normally done.
Peter Ansoff
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