Re: I dont know what to do
Hi, Alvinta,
Reading the forum "US flags on uniforms and clothing" I am lost. Some members are saying that it as long as the clothing itself is not made of a whole or part of an actual American flag its Ok, some disagree.
I don't blame you for being confused. The problem is that the US "Flag Code" itself is not entirely clear about this point. Here is what it actually says:
The flag should never be used as wearing apparel, bedding, or drapery.
. . .
No part of the flag should ever be used as a costume or athletic uniform. However, a flag patch may be affixed to the uniform of military personnel, firemen, policemen, and members of patriotic organizations.
My interpretation of this would be that you should not use an actual flag, or part of one, as clothing, but that it's OK to have a picture of a flag, or stars-and-stripes decorations, on clothing. This strikes me as reasonable, and it's what seems to be the norm in real life. For example, a person wearing an "Uncle Sam" costume, which is made up of flag motifs, is normally thought to be patriotic rather than disrespectful. However, the words are not perfectly clear, and there is certainly room for disagreement.
Also, the "Flag Code" itself is not enforceable law -- it's just a set of suggestions for how to use and display the flag in a respectful way. You are free to make your own judgement about what you think is proper. Respect isn't just following arbitrary rules; it is showing that you understand the special meaning of the flag as a symbol of our nation.
Best regards,
Peter Ansoff
"We live by symbols, and what shall be symbolized by any image of the sight depends upon the mind of him who sees it."
-- Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr.